Daily Devotional Acts 16:36b-40 – Does love mean we should be doormats? – Free online Bible Study – Commentary in easy English – Day 596

(The jailer told Paul) “Now you can leave. Go in peace.” But Paul said to the officers: “They beat us publicly without a trial, even though we are Roman citizens, and threw us into prison. And now do they want to get rid of us quietly? No! Let them come themselves and escort us out.” The officers reported this to the magistrates, and when they heard that Paul and Silas were Roman citizens, they were alarmed. They came to appease them and escorted them from the prison, requesting them to leave the city. After Paul and Silas came out of the prison, they went to Lydia’s house, where they met with the brothers and sisters and encouraged them. Then they left. (Acts 16:36b-40)

God calls us to be patient, to endure, and even to suffer for Him, but He does not want us to be doormats. Proverbs 29:21 (MSG) tells us: “If you let people treat you like a doormat, you’ll be quite forgotten in the end.”

The magistrates broke Roman law by beating and jailing Paul and Silas, who were Roman citizens, without a trial. If Paul had tucked his tail between his legs and left, it would’ve sent the message that Christians had no backbone and could easily be dismissed.

People who take advantage care only about their agenda, not about others. The magistrates didn’t care about Paul and Silas or their church until they realized Paul and Silas could interfere with their agenda. It was then the magistrates visited Paul and Silas,  appeased them, and escorted them from prison. Now the magistrates respected Paul and Silas and would never forget them. I can imagine that Paul and Silas planted a seed by telling them about Jesus. Perhaps one or two of them came to know Christ. Paul and Silas didn’t report or make trouble for the magistrates; they acted in love while they demanded respect.

Some Christians never say, “no” to people because they feel it’s unloving. When people discover that, they take advantage. They know it’s easier to ask someone who is always agreeable than to make other arrangements. People have no respect for doormats or their time. When we do what everyone else wants, we don’t have time for God or His will. We can be like Paul and say, “no, I’m not going to be treated like this” in a loving way.

Heavenly Father, I praise you for telling me it’s okay to say, “no,” when people are too demanding of my time. Let me always have time to do your will, make new companions, and love and encourage my family and friends. In Christ’s name, I pray. Amen.

Daily Devotional Acts 16:36b-40 – Does love mean we should be doormats? – Free online Bible Study – Commentary in easy English – Day 596

2 thoughts on “Daily Devotional Acts 16:36b-40 – Does love mean we should be doormats? – Free online Bible Study – Commentary in easy English – Day 596

  1. It was hard for me to say no to people that were making demands on my time. When I was working, even though I loved my job, I had long hours and very little time to myself. Now that I am retired I feel that I deserve and have earned time to myself to do whatever I want. I had someone that lives in the development ask if I would like to get involved in some of the volunteer opportunities. I thought about it for a minute and said no. I’m not ready yet. I feel selfish and a bit guilty because so many people give of their time for the betterment of our community. Maybe I will be ready when I have an empty nest again, but for now the answer is no. The really important thing for me now is family.

    1. The secret is asking God about a request. When He says, “No,” as he obviously did, you should never feel guilty about it. Others will step up to what they’re called to do and you will do what you’re called to do.

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